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The less attractive women in the crowd? Everyone is beautiful to someone, so what may be a less attractive woman to one person is someone else's stunner surely?? As for subtle hints from a woman that they want to sleep with me - they probably need to slap me round the head with a wet fish - Monty Python style - before the hint would permeate my thick skull.
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10/2/2018 11:17 am |
Yea, I can loose some at times myself. But the fun is in the game of getting there or at least I try to enjoy the whole process
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Well... I don't know about not picking up on signals, or perceptions about women who initiate the process... I think it's just about being in the mood. Today - I've got a headache and I don't have the energy for the pursuit. I think it's about the mood you're in... Or not... Yep... I don't know.. ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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You bring up some very interesting points. I am a very observant person but I know I have missed signals in the past. I really prefer for the lady to be more direct because if she isn't there is a chance of getting stuck in the friend zone. I think that is what would be great about going to a swingers party, I have never been but at least you know the women there are there for a reason. Helps to get over that initial hurdle.
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You bring up some very interesting points. I am a very observant person but I know I have missed signals in the past. I really prefer for the lady to be more direct because if she isn't there is a chance of getting stuck in the friend zone. I think that is what would be great about going to a swingers party, I have never been but at least you know the women there are there for a reason. Helps to get over that initial hurdle. I have had men approach me, and I just said "No Thank You", because, although I might have been there, with the expectation that I "might have sex", I wasn't interested in having it with THEM. Also, at swinger's events, the women usually hold ALL the cards. And unless all the women are "hot to trot with everyone, just because they have a dick" (which is not the usual circumstance), you could still walk away at the end of the night, with nothing to show for it, other than a cock that is going to have to settle for getting lucky with your hand. Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.
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Do what makes you happy
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Women (and their signals) will likely always be a mystery to men, in general; and we are not even talking about individual men. Often, it seems that subtlety is a non-starter, and you just have to hit them over the head with a hammer,, and say "I want to Fuck You". Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.
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10/2/2018 11:41 am |
I feel like tone can be lost in text and digits. How much flirting is body language? We seem to compensate with emojis and hyrogliphs. I feel less than manly posting smiles and am positive my sarcastic sense of humor has chased more than one woman and couple away. I guess it wasnt meant to be Good luck
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I do feel as if Women could be more straight forward with their intentions versus throwing out all sorts of signals etc
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I don't go around thinking women are after me, therefore I have missed signs thst she was interested in me. It was only later that the light went on that it hit me I missed it. I felt silly for missing her intent.
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You do make several valid points, and I admit that I have missed "signs" in the past, and kick myself later when I realize it. However in this era, men have to be careful with what they say, and how they act in public. I never want to come across as "too pushy" so I will offer to meet someone after exchanging several messages on here, and then wait for them accept that offer. I might after several weeks make the offer again, but then I will leave it to them. It is a shame that we live in a time like this, but some of us still care about showing respect.
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I take it that I am pretty slow in catching on. Ha ha I have been told several gals have been flirting with me and I still don't see it. I pretty much treat everyone the same anymore. I just don't worry about it. Anything worth doing is worth doing right
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10/2/2018 2:43 pm |
Done. Thank you
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For me I think it depends on the setting. If I'm at a fun place, and more than one person around, I've missed some at first. Thinking we're just all being friendly, then after a bit, I'll catch on. I dont know, for me it's not that hard to tell if someone is interested in me. As for only talking to women I'm interested in. I'm not shy in the least, I talk to everyone. Doesn't necessarily mean I'm looking for sex. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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... Publically humiliated? Well... That's not good. What type of men do you meet? I've turned women down - wrong place , wrong time... but I do it politely... Could also be that THOSE men were never players to begin with. Quite a few men like to talk but can't keep up with the walk... once it presents itself. A lot of the pretenders... Just my observation. Same could be said about this site. Quite a few 'chatters,' less 'doers' ... ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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For me I think it depends on the setting. If I'm at a fun place, and more than one person around, I've missed some at first. Thinking we're just all being friendly, then after a bit, I'll catch on. I dont know, for me it's not that hard to tell if someone is interested in me. As for only talking to women I'm interested in. I'm not shy in the least, I talk to everyone. Doesn't necessarily mean I'm looking for sex. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx aflower2c replies on 10/2/2018 5:43 pm: I think if a woman is already paying attention to whose in the room she will have noticed a naturally flirty or chatty guy vs one who isnt vs the shark that only talks to specific women. Does your eye contact, body language, or tone of your voice/conversation change when you see a woman that you find attractive? Yeah I agree. Women notice that kind of behavior, much more so then most guys I think. If I find someone attractive, and want to see if she's interested, then sure. I'll flirt a little more than normal. Eye contact becomes more of a thing, obviously. I want her to know I'm interested in her. I try to steer the conversation into a place where she can say something to let me know she's interested. But I'm not shy in the least. If all else fails, I just tell her I'm interested in her and ask her out.  " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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I love to flirt with Women. I love them!! I adore them!!
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In the current environment I'd suspicious of being approached. AB No Bozos
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Wow, some interesting answers to your question.i agree that someone would have to hit me over the head with something before I noticed they were hitting on me. But that's only because I would wonder why they were hitting on me as I am pretty much your run of the mill guy to look at. And would I look at a women differently if she asked me for sex at any point. the answer is no I would not. Women are equal to men and if she wants to ask, good on her.
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As much as it is pleasant to have a conversation shift from mundane subjects to more spicy ones - the pure essence of flirting , these premises aren't famous for their subtlety,my lady Or for their timing I'm afraid Cheers - P
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10/2/2018 11:31 pm |
I have come to the inescapable conclusion that women are not attracted to me, at least not physically/sexually, I can't imagine what a woman would do to try to get my attention short of coming right out and saying that we should get together and odds are that that is not working either. I have been told, usually much after the fact that a woman had been actually interested and were trying to get through to me but I totally missed it. Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.
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Being attracted to a woman starts with looks. If I am looking across a room I don't know how her voice is, her laugh, if she is smart, and so on. so of course looks is first. Body image not so important, but depending on the type of relationship I like to do things outdoors, so you gotta want that too. so being fit is important, not thin, but a somewhat fit. Your always going to find the stereo types, male and female, looking for that perfect piece of eye candy. Both sexes, but being attracted to someone is a person choice made from so many different reasons that in the end it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks, as long as one is happy.One can keep breaking it down to so many different levels, but in reality its not that complicated.
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10/4/2018 6:20 am |
Just one coupon? I was hoping for a booklet 
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10/4/2018 7:12 am |
Cheeky lass
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I bond will energy and emotions. Look for like mindset and demeanor. I would notice you, but you probably wouldn't notice me.
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I have to ask, why is it you think your not attractive??? What happened to make you keep saying this. Even in your next post you bring it up saying men cant keep it hard cuz your not that attractive....I don't get it why you keep talking this way. Who is it that says this??
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10/17/2018 7:09 pm |
I am an introvert. Women have told me that I don't pick up hints or flirts, like they have to hit me over the head or something. I think we introverts just think you are being a nice lady talking to us instead of thinking your flirting. The opposite is some extrovert thinking you want to fuck him just because you really were just being nice rather than flirting. Those guys are jerks. "Age cannot wither her, nor custom stale her infinite variety" Shakespeare
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