I was on this site with my ex-bf 9 years ago-I was just out of a 10 year marriage and was with the right guy at the right time in my life to explore. I was with a few of his friends, he had a long term girl who joined us on occasion. We met some couples but mostly single guys, many were black-I liked the way they fucked me. My BF often filmed encounters. We did this for maybe 1.5 years then he said no more. I have been single for 5.5 years and have only been with a few guys since then, none of them recent. Last meet was a guy from this site 2 years ago-we met out and went to his place-won't be doing that again on a first meet. Messed up my jaw that night and now I have painful TMJ & a mouth that can't fully open. I'm not horny all the time and if you are then chances are we aren't a match. I like to smoke before sex-I liked that feeling. Not into mushy romantic stuff. My ex was a take charge kind of guy-that is what I prefer as I am not at all dominant. I am more on the shy side. I have chronic hepatitis B which can be spread through sex. I have been on an anti-viral medication for 6 years & the level of the hep b virus in my blood is not detectable (meaning the meds are working). Condoms are still mandatory. Men who have had hep b vaccination are preferred. I likely got Hep-b while I was into swinging with my ex-bf. Despite having a life long condition I have no regrets. I am fairly thin but not toned like I used to be. I'm a bit flabby but I am generally comfortable with my body. I do not like mustaches on guys. Don't know why but I don't care for them. I like taller guys, shaved heads, tattoos, guys who talk dirty, and porn. If you live more than 45 minutes from me it's not going to be practical to meet. I'm just a few miles north of NE Philly, so if you live in VA, the Poconos, NYC or even far North Jersey, it's just too far.

My Ideal Person Part of me wants to have a boyfriend, but I've been single for 5 years and I'm used to doing my own thing. I have a teenage daughter, a small house full of dogs/cats (am involved with animal rescue/fostering), and can't just go away for the weekend or even overnight without planning. If you are an animal lover who doesn't mind cat hair, it might work lol.