Hey and Hello! I have been a member of this site for a good while but haven't checked it AT ALL in FOREVER. About me: I am a 44yo fellow, separated, clean and sober and a dominant in BDSM. I am blessed with a beautiful and intelligent girlfriend/submissive. Her age is 23. She doesn't have a pro here yet so we are sharing for the time being. I am hetero-flexible and she is bi. We live spiritual BDSM almost 24/7. We do love each other as well. We are here to make friends with other perverts and maybe even those such as ourselves. We're not here to impress anyone, or to troll for sex partners. I am a deeply spiritual per and she is warm and witty, sassy and a lot of fun. We're interested in swinging and playing both in BDSM and the "vanilla" world, it's just not our purpose for existing! Anonymous sex isn't our thing. We LIKE lasting friendships, we ENJOY friends of substance and are outgoing and friendly ourselves. Now, if there happens to be a lust crazed gorgeous 20-something who can't see good.... well hell, we wouldn't mind splitting him or her between us on a whim ;) lol. None-the-less, lets be friends and take it from there.

My Ideal Person Both our ideal people would have a kick-ass sense of humor, loads of self confidence, uninhibited sexually, emotionally mature and not looking to fall in love! Race,shape, etc aren't what we base attraction on. We are just as turned on by curvaceous vixens as by a slim minx. She likes curvy or slim women and is partial to beautiful blue or green eyes. Six-pack toting dudes, HA! She likes the teddy bear types, so THPPPT muscle heads! I, on the other hand like to dom the slender fellow. Be comfortable in your own skin and spirit, THAT's what's most important!!! ... and don't be a narrow minded fucktard... js