I am a lover of life, and of people. I enjoy music (listening and playing (guitar, native american flute, asian flute, didgereedoo, dumbec and djimbe drums), watching politics unfold, Astronomy, a bit of astrology, and the sciences (all kinds). I love conversation about all manner of things. I laugh at the world often, and I laugh at myself twice as often. I'm very honest and ethical - life is just simpler that way. Working hard at my job, or pleasing my partner(s), is/are equally important to me. I enjoy massage, giving and receiving, and I have my own massage table. been doing massage for 40 years. I like cooking.... I have a weakness for odd / foreign / ingenious movies that make me think, or change my perspective. I have an equal weakness for ladies that like to enjoy their bodies, and whom enjoy taking control in the bedroom frequently. ;) I am BDSM lifestyle friendly, fetish friendly, and all around nice guy. Intelligent, D&D free with paperwork. I don't use drugs or drink alcohol - I'm actually into fitness and health. I am a sub (submissive), with 13 years experience in the kinky lifestyle, an active member of my local dungeon, and decidedly, sensuously, and deliciously kinky. I am not looking for a love-relationship. I'm just not. Not right now, anyway. I AM looking for a reliable, drama-free play-partner(s) who truly enjoys sex, someone who would like to have regular, safe, discrete, fun and sexy get-togethers for mutual enjoyment.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for someone who mirrors my own creativity, passion, and sensuality. Someone who genuinely believes that having fun is very important in life, and someone who shares my belief that sex and love-making are part of that overall picture. Friends plus benefits! Someone I can laugh with, play with, and marvel at the world for a little while, and then go about living our lives as we do, with that little twinkle in our eyes. I want to be the twinkle in someone's eye. ; )
I believe in being healthy, and am looking for the same in my lovers - I do p90X, take vitamins, dance often, and engage in discussion of all manner of things with my friends.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Simon and Garfunkel, The Beatles... Lots, actually.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Plus 2000 other things, lol!

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
um... really? well.. okay... Pia Zadora (remember her?),
Tracy Lords...um...Sooky from True Blood... but I don't
really fantasize about celebrities very much. I prefer
the girl next door. Or the boy. ; )

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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