Currently it is all about the lady of the relationship finding a female that she can become friends with and hopefully a whole lot more. We are a couple who is very much in love with each other and truly are best friends. We enjoy pleasing each other and watching each other being pleased. We have been in and out of the lifestyle for at least 14 yrs. Since I am out here we have decided to spice up our love life and see if I can find a female for friendship and possibly if the connection and attraction is there it can lead to a whole lot of fun!!! We are very discreet and I am even more than he is because of my career. I have a demanding job but would love to enjoy some evenings but mostly a weekend from time to time with a sexy female who shares in the same interests as me. We are not opposed at all to couples but most likely I will never play with a couple alone. WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications