Hi. Im a 35 yrs old Singaporean chinese. I am just an average looking guy but better than tom, dick and harry. Well builded body but cannot compare to those body builder lah...well at least im cuter than them... haha. I am not a smoker either am I a drug user as I still cannot find a good reason to accept them and hope I will not find out the real reason. In my free time, I prefer to drive my car down to West Coast park for a cool and sunny walk along the coast or soak in a pool for hours swim to relax myself. As for my personal life, well I rather to be frank as i feel that trust is the basic element to open up and maintain a relationship... u agree do u? I once married, but not now. I use to have , but not now. I use to sad, but not now. Life is short, enjoy while you can. Dun u agree? Can anyone tell me how many time in your life you are happy? Ask me Y am i here? Well, same like you.I'm here to look a "partner" who I can chat, drink, share joy and tear as life is getting more bore. Sexual enjoyment will come later if things goes well as I prefer to treat my partner with respect. But I admit im high sex drive person and hope my future "partner" understand that. I did said partner right?. Yes. Partner, but not intent to go into a long realationship as I do not want to "waste your time" and become a "Burden" to you. This is life. Accept it or dun touch it. Y not stay as what you are now and enjoy life. As for look, well, that a secondary consideration to me as while Im choosing other... others choosing me too. So as long as decent presentable... is find with me and age is not the element. When in bed, I would rather go slow and foreplay is necessary and it will help to bring up the feeling.

My Ideal Person A lady who is is looking for a man who share same passion and life of enjoyment. I dun mind lady who is older as I think they have more experience in life and attractive. But prefer lady who are divorced or single as I do not want to hurt another person.
I treat lady with respect and I hope I will have the same in return too.

As for date, I prefer to start with simple relationship like dinner, drink chat... etc and see how thing goes.

Maybe a good tantra massage would help to to relax your mind and body. So if you enjoy tantra massage, let see how we could link...

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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