Before you judge me too harshly, please read my entire profile. This is hard for me because I never thought I would be in this position-nor do I like being in it. Let me start at the beginning. I have never really had a problem getting women. I guess I was a late bloomer-lost my virginity at 19, but after that I did pretty well. I did the experimentation with different partners in college and grad school, and I had my share of relationships and one-night-stands. I am probably not the world’s greatest lover, but I’m quite sure I’m not the worst. I have been told I am attractive, I have a great family and am very happy and successful professionally, I just have one problem. My wife and I never have sex any more. Not really never, but 2 or 3 times a year is not cutting it for me. Unfortunately, I don’t think it is likely to get better. It’s not that we don’t care about each other-she is still my best friend, but there is just not a lot of desire on her part. I know, I could change the situation, but I am not willing to do that. You see, I love my s way too much to be a dad that sees them once a week or less. I have three, and they are the most important thing in the world to me. My job keeps me traveling frequently and it tears me apart every time I have to leave my s. I refuse to be a part-time daddy. This brings me to my dilemma. I don’t want to leave, but I also don’t want to continue to be unsatisfied sexually. So…I am looking for one per who I can get together with a couple times a month for some fun, without any emotional baggage. I don’t want to go out and fuck everything with two legs, nice tits, and a heartbeat; I’m looking for a woman for no-commitment sex. Ideally it would be during the day, but I could possibly sneak away once in a while at night. I’d like to chat first, if we are compatible we can meet, and see where that leads. I know there are a lot of guys on here that just want to score, but that is not really me. I’m not going to give you some BS line about how great I am in the bedroom or how big my cock is, I’d rather you find out for yourself after we have had a chance to chat. I am confident, intelligent, well-educated and well-read, and have an above-average sense of humor. I didn’t post a picture not because I am Quasimodo’s long lost twin; by the way, if you don’t know who that is, I am not interested, but because I do not want to disrespect my wife. I’ll send you a picture if you are interested. If there is an attraction, we’ll go from there. I love to give oral sex and oftentimes I would be happy to do that and nothing else. Looks and size are not as important to me as is the ability to be discreet, yet adventurous. I promise you will not be disappointed. If you got this far, and are not too turned off, drop me a line.

My Ideal Person I want someone who will be discreet, yet adventurous and fun, both in public and in bed. I want someone who will let me make her feel special, and take care of my needs too.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
An airplane

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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