I am Co Hosting a fetish party on Sept 3rd [COLOR red][B]A Night of Sinful Indulgence.[/B][/COLOR] Contact me here for information, or go to my site listed below. This is for lifestyle people or people interested in it. Not for pickup artist's. There is a limited number of people who we will accept. It is a safe venue for new couples and singles to experience the lifestyle. It is an upscale location and very discrete. I adjust to my partner.... But Ladies I have not really played around for a while at all. At the parties you see listed below, I do not play I am to busy handling the logistics. Frankly at this point I really and looking more for QUALITY not Quantity. I can get that anytime I want. I am looking more for some intimacy and closeness. Yeah sex would be great, but that is secondary. Yes I want to have fun, but I want the scent of a woman when I hug her and nibble on her neck, caress her arms, slowly running my fingernails down the length. Nibbling on her ear. Tasting her as I lick her neck. Discussing together what turns you on and discovering together what else we can find out. I have found some interesting articles on Sensual BDSM Sensual play is the one area in BDSM that a lot of vanilla folks are actually actively participating in without knowing it. The human being is a sensual animal, we survive because of all the clues our senses provide us with. We love certain activities because of the sensual overload we get from them. …………... Sensual play is a type of scene where the top or dominant caresses the submissive or bottom with different objects that have different textures, different temperatures and different smells….. How many senses will be taken away is the decision of those playing. ….. There is a thrill in not knowing what will be used next, will it be ice or will it be candle wax, will it be a leather glove or will it be a feather? See where vanilla folk come into the picture too?[/I] But I also have to be honest, I host Adult Fetish Parties I have been asked by a number of people about the party listed below. A lot of new people attend this party to check out the fetish lifestyle. It is one of the safest places for you to at least find out. A lot of new people come to them to check it out. Single women come because it is a safe place for them to check it out and not fell afraid. If they do not want to play, NO ONE WILL FORCE THEM OR HIT ON THEM. IT is not allowed. I am part of HawaiiBDSM and we host fetish parties in town. An example was is the party listed at the Hawaiibdsm site These parties are by invite party only the information is posted for everyone to read discretion is insisted on and assured. No Pro's are allowed nor pickup artist's. If you do not have manners, do not even thing about talking to me. Everyone who wants to come to a party like this has to meet with the organizers so they understand the basics of a party like this. Please understand these parties are about fun and sensuality on a different level. They are not about ABUSE of other People. The rea I am involved in these parties is so consenting adults can have fun. I perally do not play at these parties. It is a lot of work for me. But I do enjoy the fact that people have fun at them. I enjoy that a lot of people can come to it and learn in a safe and sane environment, couples can role play and talk and experiment together. A woman can come and feel safe and not worry about feeling like a piece of meat. That is why I do it. We normally have an even mix of experienced players and those new who want to check it out and or learn. So if you have questions or are curious, ASK! If you don't you will never know. Check out my testimonials, they are from people whom I have introduced to these parties. In fact ask them. Standard Members can email me!!! First let me say this. I am not Homophobic or judgmental. If I ask you to be part of my friends, it may mean just that. There are some people I choose not to play with, but that does not mean I do not like to have coffee or a drink with and talk about all kinds of things. I find some people here have profiles but in a lot of cases just want to talk about it first. So if I ask you to be a "Friend" take it as that and go with the flow. There are no strings or insinuations, believe me I will tell you if I want something. If you are looking to talk to people about your kinky curiosities, I can introduce you to people or a group where people probably share much the feelings, and you can talk to them in a safe sane and consensual environment. For everyone’s education there are a few socials, munches and parties that happen on Oahu In the past one Friday night a month at Magic Island to watch the fireworks and then go to a local eatery for more. It is a vanilla social so newbies and anyone can attend. You can contact me here or on Alt at haole45 for more info. There also is a Bdsm email list I can guide you to where you can apply to get on it. I perally am not on it, but I know of a lot of people who are, and they tell me it is a newsletter type format. Why am I doing this? Because I believe that people should be able to play and have enough information for safe and sane consensual play. This information is so you know where to go to meet people of like mind and ask questions as well as socialize. Hope it helps. Let's face it guy's there is only so much tooth paste in the tube and most guys are only good for about 30 minutes at best. Women are great at telling us how great we are. Our learning of sex education consists of physics and hydraulics and most of us only learn about a clitoris by accident! In fetish play you can last for hours and penetration is not even an issue and instead of rolling over for a cigarette you savor the moment as she does. It is not about experiencing each other at a different level. Playing cowboys and Indians or doctor and nurse if you want as adults. Acting out your fantasies and exploring your desires and letting your inhibitions go, if you dare.

My Ideal Person Some one who wants is not afraid to enjoy sex and try new things,,, experiment... ME I guess you could call try sexual... as long as it feels good for all of us. I can be dominate or submissive if you like.. I can tie you up or let you tie me up. Spank you or you can spank me We can try things you always wanted to but your other half wouldn't. Sometimes men are more hung up than women. I know I used to be. I like clean well groomed people. Intelligence is a must.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
More than will fit in this space. I also like to work with
my partner in fulfilling theirs.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Mot really the person I am with is the celebrity. So when
I fantasize it is usually about someone I know and want to
do more with and they are the celebrity

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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