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sap10s3xual 57 / M
"Seeking thoughtful people of integrity for friendship and more"
Santa Clara, California, United States
 
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sap10s3xual 57/M
Santa Clara, California
Open to relaxed, unrushed encounters with sane, communicative people. Can do discreet, no obligation videoing for you also.
Introduction
I'm seeking to do something about my rather sparse sexual history (mostly due to self-esteem issues) while still healthy. Older model, but low mileage, and parts are cheap. I haven't had so many partners in my life such that sex ever became mundane or taken for granted. Even massage and basic touch hold value for me. I'm a complex man with simple needs. Communication. Integrity. Authenticity. Nature. Coffee. I'm totally respectful of discretion and boundaries. I'm PFOA-free and dishwasher safe. Covid Vaxxed and boosted. I'm not into body piercings, bondage, handcuffs, etc. -- I like eager consent without restraint. (I'm not judging those who do; just not my thing). I've never looked at a nipple or navel or labia and thought, "hey, that would be [I][B][/B]so much sexier[/I} if it had metal driven through it". Not into CD or trans at all. Toys are fine -- show me what you like! I'm [B]not[/B] into roughness, choking, spanking, etc. (butts and throats look so nice [B]un[/B]damaged!). Frankly, I find the growing choking trend in porn to be rather creepy. I don't want to dominate anyone (reality -or- play), nor be dominated. I like peers. I like collaboration. I like collaboration a LOT. I'd really like some in-depth collaboration opportunities. I'm a Gold member and can message and whatever. I'm average endowed, circumcised, but have inconsistent erectile function due to current meds regimen. But I do improvise well. so I'm told. ATTENTION: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects: You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.

My Ideal Person For now, I'm just looking for safe play and experimentation. No smokers please.

Editorial: There's a lot of revealing video on here, but I must say. the hold-up-your-phone-yourself-with one-hand thing just doesn't work well. For optimal results, both hands should be on your partner(s) at all times. I think that's an OSHA rule somewhere anyway. If you just want a discreet, no-obligation, non intrusive cameraman, I'd be happy to help. Everyone benefits, including your audience.

Information
  • 57 / male
  • Santa Clara, California, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Bi-sexual
Looking For:  Men, Women, Couples (man/woman), Groups, Couples (2 women) or Couples (2 men)
Birthdate: July 17, 1966
Relocate?: Yes
Marital Status: Single
Height: 6 ft 0 in / 182-185 cm
Body Type: A little extra padding
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: BA/BS (4 years college)
Occupation: Self-employed
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Agnostic
Have Children: No
Want Children: Maybe
Male Endowment: Average/Average
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Brown
Hair Length: Short
Eye Color: Hazel
Glasses or Contacts: None